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Get insight into the impact of online pornography, what the law says and steps that are being introduced to protect young children from seeing adult content.
Get insight into the impact of online pornography, what the law says and steps that are being introduced to protect young children from seeing adult content.
As a result of their curiosity, or just by accident, children can stumble across Pornography online and be exposed to confusing and unrealistic images of sex and relationships. But there are steps you can take to limit their exposure.
Look out for changes in their behavior to see if they have been viewing pornography online. Signs of premature sexual activity increased interest in sexuality and the use of sexual language.
Other signs include; unexplained charges on bank cards, explicit pop-ups on browsers and deleting browsing history.
Children can stumble across online porn through indiscriminate pop-ups ( these may appear if they have downloaded ‘free’ software), through content shared on social media, live streaming or sites that actively offer this content for free.
Although porn is readily available online, under the new plans, which are set to be rolled out in April 2019, users will be greeted with a warning page requiring them to log in via an age verification system.
They will need to provide ID in the form of a credit card, driver’s licence or via a designated card which can be purchased at certain shops – before they access adult content. This will mean that you’ll have to prove that you are 18 or over to access any porn site. This will apply to all porn sites and those that don’t comply will be fined.
`{`Group of teens`}`
Yes
Yes, I have have.
I am a teenage guy so yes I have.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Of course.
I've seen it.
Yeah.
Yeah I have.
`{`On screen text`}` When was the first time
I was about thirteen `{`or`}` fourteen.
I was like fourteen.
`{`In`}` 6th grade
11 `{`years old`}`
I was like ten.
About when I hit puberty, probably around 11.
Probably aged 12.
7th Grade.
5th Grade.
12 almost 13 `{`Years old`}`
Like maybe 8th Grade.
when I was in elementary school.
14 `{`Years old`}`
Probably when I was thirteen.
`{`On screen text`}` How were you introduced to pornograhy?
I accessed it online through the phone, there were just ads popping up at first.
It was on a website and it just popped up.
Yeah I was on my computer, I think it like popped up.
I just came across it I guess.
On my phone.
Four months ago I was dared to watch it on my friends phone.
On my friends computer and a friends showed it to me.
Friends.
Some kids on the bus was just watching it and showing everybody and being funny about it.
Probably a friend showed me I think.
The first time I saw it, it was my birthday and my friend showed it to me.
I went to my friends house and he showed me on his phone.
It was on a computer and one of my friends was like dude you have to see this.
`{`on screen text`}` When was the last time you watched it?
Yesterday.
Two days ago.
Probably last night.
Couple of weeks ago.
Yesterday maybe.
I watch it Wednesdays and Thursdays.
`{`On screen text`}` Do your parents talk to you about pornography?
No.
No.
No.
I don't know.
No.
No.
`{`On screen text`}` DO your parents talk to you about sext?
Yes, once.
Kind of.
No.
Like once.
Kinda'
Nope.
No.
They've talk to me about it but...like twice I think.
No.
Nothing more than what it is.
`{`on screen text`}` Have you talked to your kids about sex?
`{`Voice over`}` Make sure you are the first and best source for your kids questions about healthy sexuality and intimacy. Find information and educational resources like 30 days of sex talks at Educateempowerkids.org
Understanding– 53% of boys believed that the pornography they had seen was realistic compared to 39% of girls
Exposure: Over 9 in 10 children have been exposed to porn online by the age of 14
Use – 9 out of 10 parents who use parental controls think they are useful
From our own research, we also know that a quarter of children who’ve seen porn online discovered it through friends and a third were accidentally exposed to it. Parents also feel that porn online seems much more extreme and explicit than other media.
FAQ: Is pornography addiction a real thing?
There isn’t a universally accepted diagnosis for porn addiction. However, experts who recognise a link between porn and addiction believe it to be a ‘hypersexual disorder’ which is characterised by an increased compulsion to watch porn even when it negatively impacts mental and, physical health and stops you for forming healthy relationships and functioning in everyday life.
This is when an explicit or sexual image or video of a person is shared without their consent. It normally takes place when there is a relationship break down and ex-partner is seeking revenge. It is now a crime to carry out and carries a sentence to up to two years in prison.
Get support: www.revengepornhelpline.org.uk
Looking at indecent images of under 18s is illegal irrespective of how old they look. As these images are real young people it causes them harm and any image found should be reported to the International Watch Foundation. The UK has a strict prohibition on the taking, making, circulation and possession with a view to distribution of any indecent photograph or pseudo-photograph of a child and such offences carry a maximum sentence of 10 years’ imprisonment.
This is anything that features someone threatening a person’s life, an act that results in serious injury, bestiality or necrophilia. It is illegal to possess these images or videos and carries a sentence of between 2 -3 years and an unlimited fine.
Types of pornography that are illegal – even for an adult to have include acts that threaten a person’s life. These could be acts that could result in serious injury, degrading pornography, violent pornography (i.e. rape and abuse) and anything that involves those under the age of 18.
In secondary schools, SRE lessons teach children about healthy relationships and following new guidance will also cover specific issues such as pornography, sexting, harassment, and consent.
Article: 13 Reasons to talk with your kids about sex: The advantages of sex education
Read moreFAQ: What is relationships and sex education?
Relationships and sex education (RSE) is learning about the emotional, social and physical aspects of growing up, relationships, sex, human sexuality, and sexual health. It should equip children and young people with the information, skills and positive values to have safe, fulfilling relationships, to enjoy their sexuality and to take responsibility for their sexual health and well-being.
Read more about proposed changes to Personal, Social and Health Education (PSHE) from PSHE Association
Read moreFAQ: What’s your right as a parent about what they learn?
Some parts of sex and relationship education are compulsory – these are part of the national curriculum for science. Under the terms of the new guidance, you’ll be able to withdraw your child from some or all sex education. All schools must have a written policy on sex education, which they must make available to parents for free.
Here are some other useful resources and articles to protect children from online pornography